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This isn't a question...
I keep hearing ppl say "no baggage" or "check your bags at the door"...I guess thses ppl don't want relationships.
There comes a certain point in your life where everybody is going to come into a relationship with baggage. If they dont their baggage is the fact that they have never been in a relationship, don't know how to have a relationship & have been living under a rock for the past (enter age here) years.
To be in a relationship is to accept a person...baggage and all.
I'm not saying drop all your problems on somebody and expect them to fix them for you. I'm not saying to have ppl dump all over you in the name of a relationship either.
Don't use it as a crutch...you can't be an ass all the time and blame a shitty childhood.
What I'm trying to say (in a sleep-deprived haze) is that if you have been in a relationship or had some semblance of a real, not-candy-coated life...you are going to have baggage. So is the other person. Thats life & thats love...
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